
AI is saving us time. No doubt about that. But lately, I have noticed something off. Not in the tech, but in me. I would open ChatGPT to help write a brief, solve a design problem, or plan my week. Then I would catch myself struggling to remember things I used to know cold. Worse, I would feel uneasy making decisions without “asking the bot.”
I am not alone. We are starting to outsource not just tasks but thinking itself. That has consequences.
The evidence is starting to pile up, and it’s not comforting.
It’s not that AI is making us stupid. It’s that we stop practicing being smart when we lean on it too hard.
A few months ago, I was leading a workshop. We were prototyping content ideas, and someone asked, “What’s the clearest way to explain this to users?” I froze. Normally I would riff a few options, sketch on the fly. But my brain went blank. And my first instinct? Open ChatGPT.
That moment shook me. It wasn’t that I couldn’t solve the problem. It was that I no longer trusted myself to try first. That is when I started paying attention. I looked at how often I used AI not to augment but to avoid thinking. It was creeping in everywhere. Emails, concepts, even what to eat. That’s when I knew this needed fixing.
Here is the core issue: our brains are lazy by design. If a shortcut works, we will take it. But when we let AI think for us, we skip the mental reps. That has real effects.
Ironically, AI tools are strongest at the output stage. But when we use them during ideation or decision-making, we lose the very skills they can’t replicate.
Some people say, “AI helps me be more creative.” That can be true. It is like having a creative assistant who never sleeps. But here is the catch:
Creativity isn’t just combining ideas. It’s sitting in the ambiguity and turning chaos into something clear. That process takes friction, not shortcuts.
If we continue down the current path, we will see:
Imagine a future where everyone “creates” but no one thinks independently. That is not a sci fi dystopia. It’s a very real possibility.
You don’t need to ditch AI. But you do need to use it with intention.
It’s not about rejecting technology. It is about reconditioning your brain to stay active in a passive world.
AI isn’t here to destroy human thought. But it is making it easier to forget how to think for ourselves. That’s why we need friction, silence, doubt, and even boredom. These aren’t glitches. They are features of the human mind that AI can’t replicate. They are where original thought lives. Use AI. Enjoy it. But keep your mind sharp. Because if you don’t, someone or something else will think for you 🙂
F R I N L E Y P A U L is a Digital Creative Director and Design Strategist with over 20 years of experience in web, UI/UX, branding, and advertising. He has led creative direction and design for global clients across a wide range of digital products and platforms.
Currently, Frinley is the Creative Design Director at TechWyse, a digital marketing agency. He shares his work and insights through his personal website, as well as on YouTube, where he posts design tutorials and tips.